反移情恨意是治療師在治療過程中，無意識的對患者產生了強烈的敵意、厭惡、憤怒、挫敗等負面情感。最初由精神分析師溫尼考特提出此概念，形容它是一種「厭惡」和「惡意」的混合體，想要與對方保持距離，並摻雜了某種殘忍、更具攻擊性的情感。 Hate in countertransference refers to the intense (often unconscious) aversion, malice, rage, or frustration that a therapist experiences toward a patient during the course of treatment. First introduced by Donald Winnicott in 1949, counter-transference hate is described as a mixture of “aversion” —the desire to distance oneself, and “malice”—a more sadistic or aggressive feeling. 反移情恨意是治療師在面對特別棘手、強烈防衛，或有破壞性的患者時不可避免的反應。這些患者之所以一再挑戰治療師的底線，往往是出於內在的混亂或被拋棄的恐懼。因為他們認為，如果治療師能夠忍受他們的所作所為，而不會報復或拋棄他們，才能證明這位治療師是值得信任的。 Hate in countertransference is an unavoidable reaction for therapists when faced with particularly difficult and destructive patients. These patients often test the therapist's limits out of their inner turmoil or fear of abandonment. They think that if the therapist proves to survive their own hate without retaliating or abandoning them, it’s the on...